…I have been made free
by the tide’s pendulum truth
that the heart that is low now
will be at the full tomorrow.
by the tide’s pendulum truth
that the heart that is low now
will be at the full tomorrow.
~R.S. Thomas
All of man’s problems come from his inability to sit quietly
in a room alone.
~Blaise Pascal
In the movie Topsy-Turvy
– a depiction of the Victorian-era partnership of Gilbert and Sullivan – there is a scene in which Gilbert has just had
a recently-invented telephone installed in his home. His elderly father objects
to it as an intrusion, complaining, “Why should I have a gadget that allows a
stranger to set off a bell in my home whenever he feels like it!” I can’t think
of a better summary introduction to the world of noise that ensued. With the
invention of the radio at approximately the same time, our grandparents’,
parents’, and now our generation have not only been present at the creation,
but have observed the steady marginalization of quiet and solitude over the
last hundred years. Quietness has, almost literally, been pushed to the edges
of our existence.
Although the increasing number of noisy gadgets in our lives (including mine) should perhaps give us pause, my intention here is not to rail against them, but to offer a modest proposal for how to live with them in such a way that we experience
a life of balance, benefiting from both the technology that we have come to
require and the solitude that we, actually, need.
The proposal I have in mind is the Sabbath, or, more
exactly, the idea of the Sabbath. While I am a proponent of the biblical
Sabbath pattern of six days of work and one of rest, I am speaking here more of
the micro- and macro-Sabbaths that flow from this principle. (The Sabbath principle is one of those things
about which it can be said, “It’s not true because it’s in the Bible; it’s in
the Bible because it’s true.”) Sabbath means a number of things, but at its
heart it primarily means “rhythm” and “rest.” It is “all work and no play makes
Jack a dull boy.” It is why workaholism should be confessed and treated, not
bragged about. It is why, when the boss bragged, “I don’t need a vacation,” one
of his employees whispered, “He doesn’t think he needs a vacation but everyone
else thinks he needs a vacation!” It is why Jesus said to the exhausted
disciples, “Come away by yourselves to a quiet place.”
And it is why we need quiet after the noise of TV and
cellphones, and darkness after the screenlight of iPads and Androids. It is
rhythm, Sabbath rhythm. And it is rest – not, in this case, idle snoozing
(although studies have shown that the afternoon nap is more productive, even in
a business sense, than the afternoon coffee break), but the break from routine.
Putting away the pale-lit device and talking across the table to a friend.
Walking around the block. Sitting in church without texting.
If the irritating jingly bell represented the new intrusion
of technology for W.S. Gilbert’s father, I suppose the icon for our current
distractions is the familiar scene of two people talking, at least one of them
bobbing his head nervously up and down, constantly checking the tiny screen
that can’t be turned off – ever.
The always-on screen is a good modern representation of
what the Bible calls the sin of failing to enter into one’s Sabbath rest. The
non-sabbatical, always-on life – whether that of work or technology – is, like
all sin, “not just bad – it’s bad for you.”*
The noise of devices and the glare of screens affects our
brains, our relationships, and our attention. (Brain development needs
down-time.) Everybody gets nervous if they see a driver heading toward them with a cell phone in hand, but the same everybody thinks that they are the exception who can
handle it themselves. It is not just that the seventeen-year-old pickup truck driver – who
killed a grandmother, mother, and daughter because he was texting – needed
a sabbatical break from the screen; his victims needed him to take one, too. So
much for the libertarian freedom of the cell phone.
The original sin was the sin of self-centeredness. (“I don’t
need God, I can be God!”) It is still what all sin is. Our devices become like
Eden’s talking snake, enticing us, “You can do it – and that, too, and that,
too…, whatever you want…, these iThings are extensions of you! Why would you
turn them off?” And, to switch literary
references, a picture of the Queen dancing in her iron shoes comes to mind. Dancing
to death.
I am a user of these devices. Whenever I switch them off and
sit quietly in a room or stare out a window or walk iPhone-free, the first
thought I have is how good it feels. The second is how rarely I do this.
I was going to say that the margins to which quiet has been
pushed are out in the woods – in the mountains – and that you can seek solitude
in a backpacker's tent or a remote cabin. But that’s not really true, is it? If
you approach all but the remotest cabin in the darkness you will see the soft
blue glow of an iPad emanating from the picturesque windows. The real Sabbath –
and the real Sabbath rhythm – is produced by an on-off switch (wherever you
are), and by the solitude or conversation that follows.
When we read the most profound of the Bible’s many creation
accounts – the one in the first chapter of Genesis – we see that the Crown of
Creation is not humankind. It is not even God. It is the Sabbath.
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This New
York Times essay by Pico Iyer (the source of the Blaise Pascal quote, above) is a very insightful and even inspiring
treatment of this topic.
*"Sin" is kind of a loaded word for some; think "brokenness," or anything that works agains the fullness of life.
*"Sin" is kind of a loaded word for some; think "brokenness," or anything that works agains the fullness of life.
2 comments:
Great subject, excellent writing and opinion! Thank you, Richard. I see some other downsides to all this noise/input. No downtime means less reflection, less journaling, less space for new ideas. That probably means less time for reading the Bible, too, and therefore less time to find that God's ways are not one's own. Big trouble for all.
My grandfather's journals from the early 1900s are a source of wonder to me. Too bad our progeny won't have the same from us (speaking as a nation).
I recall a visit by a young man from NYC to my mountain home some years back. He was absolutely terrified by the silence and dark. We have to ask what that means about that human life.
Personally I find that text receptions to my wife's phone are the most disruptive. They come much more frequently than phone calls or cute replies on Facebook that just "have to" be shared. Then they "hang there" in the air until retrieved. Very annoying to conversation in process.
Sabbath, yes. More than ever. Bill Gable
Thanks, Bill. Always glad to hear from you.
Dick
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